Tuni Gravink (House) (1964)
Could not help but read the comments about the young girl and her situation with sports. I also can see where mom was a bit agitated and probably should be.I would be a bit upset, and would try to find out what can my daughter participate in to allow her to still do sports. I can say honestly when i came to WHS and was in gym the first week , one of the teachers (who should have been retired already , she really had zero patience with young students, and i think personally she was tired of teaching) , came up to me saw my name and said : "If you are anything like your aunt , i will flunk you." I was totally shocked, and thought wow who let this drill sargent loose on us. My aunt had been very sick, and could not do alot of the gym things period. I also had surgery after surgeries, and was up against the same thing. A couple of them were darned serious too! She was hard on me, and everytime i came back from surgery with a doctors excuse, to not do strenous things, she got even madder at me. My freshman and sophmore year i hated gym. When i was well i was active in G.A.A. for Volley ball, and i loved it, i played tennis, i swam, i did all kinds of sports, in school (when i could) and when out of school also. One week i finally just went home, and said i cannot take her rudeness anymore. My dad was not happy about it, but he understood. He addressed the issue, and it was sort of stiffled a bit, and i got grounded (of course) for leaving campus. But the point was : that teacher should no have referred to me as being like my aunt, and if i was , it was not her place to talk like that in front of everyone else and embarass me in front of them. I mean going from 8th grade to the big school; i thinks scared many of us. It was something new, and very different. I agree the mother should probably file a complaint, and hope to follow it through, and maybe a lawyer will assist pro-bono. Weight should not come into play when the student loves sports and wants to participate. She wanted to be part of a team, and her mom knew that and went about seeing if there was something else sport wise the young girl could do , The mom was trying make her daughter not just feel better, but be a part of a team of a sport of some kind. Tuni Gravink-House
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