Sherry Bailey (Westland) (1968)
It has been interesting to hear about spiritual transformations of former WHS Grads. I’d like to share a similar experience. Sooooo, if Godly testimonies ‘turn you off’ STOP HERE.
I had attended church throughout high school, but never felt a NEED for God. My life was, after all, a "bed of roses". I was making good choices, having fun; enjoying life without God. I had no fear. Out of high school, like most of us, I went to college and then into the airlines. Being a stewardess was really fun. Sure, it’s just a glorified job meant to save lives, but there’s more. I met politicians, musicians, sports heroes, doctors, lawyers, and people from all walks of life. I was invited to a lot of parties by people I wouldn't have met otherwise, as well as being given some wonderful career opportunities. For instance, I was asked to be a stewardess for a corporate company’s private jet, and I did a TV pilot for a game show with Betty White and Charles Nelson Reilly, etc. My girlfriend (who was also a stewardess) and I were planning a trip to Europe; life was good!
I had flown home to visit my family in Woodland over the St. Patrick's Holiday. For my return flight back to L.A., I arrived at the airport only to learn that there was a blackout and my flight had a 3 hour delay. I sat down for the ‘wait’ and a handsome man sat down next to me and struck up a conversation. He was intelligent, articulate, 10 yrs. Older, and before long, we discovered we had a lot in common. (Did I mention there was also a huge physical attraction?!) He was a landscape architect with his own nursery living in beautiful San Diego. I lived in Westchester by the L.A. airport. However, after that initial meeting, we were inseparable. I was young, very naïve and innocent but was sure I had met my Prince Charming. So much so that we had a whirlwind (Looking back, seems more of a Dust Devil! lol) courtship and were married, are you ready, just ONE month later! I remember one night when we were together I actually saw stars, the good kind! lol It was probably the effects of too much alcohol (that usually leads to something bad! Lol) Our wedding was so romantic. We were married in San Diego, off Shelter Island, by a captain out-at-sea. As a side note, we were married on the square rigged sailboat that was used to re-enact Cabrillo’s Landing every year. Everything we did seemed exciting and unique. No, I hadn’t gone to Europe with my girlfriend, but life was good. I was in love.
It didn’t take long to realize I didn’t really know the man I married. And, if you’re thinking ‘boy was she stupid’, I wholeheartedly agree! Sooooo, to make a long story shorter, during the 2 yrs. we were married, I endured physical abuse, including being burnt with cigarettes, bloody noses, black eyes, unfaithfulness, and finally a failed attempt on my life (when I told him I wanted a divorce. That was back in the day when women didn’t speak out about abuse. Finally at the end of 2 years, I had no self-esteem left. I finally confided in a friend who helped me go through with the divorce. In the court proceedings, my “x” protested and represented himself, during which time the Judge found him in contempt of court and he was fined. I was awarded the nursery, our condo on the beach, and all of our material belongings. Heartbroken, I only took what I personally brought into the marriage (looking back now, hmmmm…what was I thinking! lol). There’s a lot more to the story, including stealing my car, guns, drugs, etc., but I will spare you. Maybe one day I will write a book….all I know, and the real reason I tell you this, is that the GOOD thing that came out of all the pain and heartache was that I found a personal relationship with Christ and I have never looked back. I found I don’t have all the answers on my own, like I once thought. And now I’m glad I don’t have to go through this life alone. I'm sure God would have preferred I found him through an easier way, but this is what it took, and I don't regret it for what I found is worth it.
My faith in God has gotten me through other devastating experiences, including the loss of my beloved son. I have been given HOPE for today, tomorrow, and am looking forward to eternal life! It’s good to know other high school friends are on the same journey…
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