Sherry Bailey (Westland) (1968)
Hey! Thanks for all the kind responses about the experience I shared. I have had a couple more "doozies" but will spare you the drama. Suffice it to say, I'm grateful for my past (good & bad), because it has played a part in becoming the woman I am today. One thing I have learned is to face devastation squarely in the eye, even when I want to run away. I now welcome life's lessons, knowing that I will get through them faster by facing them head on! If you run, you just get the same lesson repeated. Since I'm not a "glutton for punishment," I have become a very good student! lol I'm sure we have all learned valuable life lessons. I now do online mentoring and have turned my pain around to help others in similar situations! Believe me, no matter if we live in the UK, Africa, Israel, or the US...we are all humans with the same basic needs...there truly is" nothing new under the sun".
I LOVE to watch "Classic Movies".....I am reminded in a lot of them, however, about how women were treated so differently back then. Of course, EVERYONE back then also smoked one cigarette after another! And that handsome Marlboro man who promoted being "cool" in all the commercials, died a horrible death from smoking. I meet women who are newly widowed and are so lost because the husband handled all the finances. I also deeply admire their marriages that have lasted 50-60 plus years! I truly respect how those women (and men) have hung in there! I was so glad that I was able to stay-at-home when my 3 sons were young. Yet, the day came when I went back to work too. I believe both were right for my family at different seasons of our lives.
I agree about life's "cycles," Tom, and if I could put it more simply in 'clothing terms': lol First cycle, we have the "granny" skirt.....then it keeps getting shorter until....we have the "mini" skirt...then the "micro mini" skirt. Then it starts over again with the "granny" skirt. It can only get so extremely long and only so extremely short. I think wisdom and balance is found somewhere in the middle of (most) cycles.
I'm thankful for my peeps that I 'do life' together with...we're all on this journey of life together and it's nice to be able to talk with classmates from my alma mater!
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